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Should You Be a Life Coach?

Should You Be a Life Coach?

I get a lot of “should I be a life coach?” questions from readers. Here’s a round up of the most common questions I receive and my response to each.

If you’re new here, here’s the perspective I’m coming from: I consider myself a career coach, not a life coach, since I work on career-specific issues, but in practice I operate more like a life coach than a recruiter, consultant, or executive career advisor would. I’ve been in business for five years (as of 2016).

Here are the most common questions I’ve gotten:


I have three big questions for anyone considering becoming a coach:

1. Is becoming a life coach ideal for you in terms of WHY you want to work, WHAT you’re good at, and HOW you work best?

2. Have you spoken to any coaches about what the career is actually like? Pretty websites are not always an indication of financial success or career satisfaction.

3. Are you interested in spending more time on the business building, marketing, and administration aspects than on actual coaching? Tolerating these things is not enough; you have to really enjoy them or hire someone to do them for you. If you don’t find the business parts rewarding, then no, I do not think you will be content as a coach. You might look for employment options that allow you to use your coaching skills but do not require the entrepreneurial demands of being an online coach. Be real with yourself about this.


You don’t have to, but it’s a good idea.

Because coaching is an unregulated industry, you’re not required to be have a certification in order to market yourself as a coach. Most clients won’t care or ask about certification; they care if you can help them get the results they want.

But you do have a tremendous responsibility to your clients, so certification or at least some coaching training is the responsible move for most coaches-to-be, even if they have natural talents. Training will not only help you develop the skills you need, but it will also build your confidence as a coach.

If you’re interested in top-notch training, I’m a proud affiliate for the Courageous Living Coach Certification. This program did not exist when I did my training, and if I could do over again, this is where I’d go, no contest. The program not only trains exceptional coaches, but also prepares them for the business aspects of running a successful coaching practice. This is very rare as many coaching programs give outdated marketing and business advice. (Tip: Scope out the websites of graduate of the programs you’re considering to see if they look professional, effective, and “with it.”)


It is certainly harder to establish yourself now than it was a few years ago, but I don’t think the market is saturated. Coaching has become more mainstream, so more people are actively looking for a coach, which is great news.

However, I don’t think general “Stick with me and I’ll make your life better” coaches have much chance of survival. There are bigger players, vague language doesn’t compel people to invest, and it’s hard to get any traction. You need a THING. A specialty. A point of view. A solution to a problem that is better, or at least different from what is already offered. (Which is another reason I refer people to the Courageous Living Coaching Certification; it helps you develop your unique voice.)


So you just have to get started anyway.

It takes time to find your thing, and you won’t do it by sitting around theorizing by yourself. Your point of view will develop as you start working with real people. You’ll learn what people need, what’s already out there, and what needs aren’t being met by what’s already out there.


Anytime you start a business, you don’t really know what to expect. I recommend you plan for a crossfade period between what you’re doing know and being able to fully support yourself with coaching. This may take you several years. Your path will look like your path, so don’t get too hung up on comparing your timeline with someone else’s.

Plan to have another source of income until you can comfortably support yourself with coaching. People don’t like to hear this because it feels like they’re a failure until they’re making the big bucks solely from coaching. But this is how you plan to succeed. Take care of yourself. You will not build a thriving business supporting other people if you’re living in panic and deprivation.


Any way you can. I recommend starting with the One Problem, One Person, One Solution approach and offering it to people who could use it, whether that means online or in your neighborhood.


Marketing, social proof, blah, blah, blah. You can read about that in a million places.

I think the real question here is, “How can I build a steady income?”

One-on-one coaching is great, but it can only take you so far. Once you’ve picked up on a problem and created a solution that is dynamite, the easiest way to stabilize your income is to make that solution available to more people with less of your hands-on involvement. Think classes, ebooks, online programs, etc.


If you’re looking for a training program, I highly recommend the Courageous Living Coach Certification. [affiliate link]

If you’d like a more DIY approach, Kate Swoboda’s Coaching Blueprint [affiliate link] is an excellent resource. I bought it early on in my biz, and it was invaluable.

  1. leslie.forman@gmail.com

    March 6th, 2014 at 4:00 pm

    Very helpful! Thanks Laura. I’m getting close to launching a new website and part of it will be focused on international career coaching, specifically for people who are looking to move overseas and create their own international careers. I’ve gotten dozens of emails from people who have questions about this, and over the past 7+ years in China and Chile I’ve encountered a huge range of bureaucratic, personal, and workplace hurdles that I’m more than happy to share with my community. I don’t have a coaching certification, but I believe this experience and perspective is far more interesting than a piece of paper that they may or may not be familiar with. The main thing I need to do is launch this service and build from there! Thanks again.

  2. gehachete@hotmail.com

    March 6th, 2014 at 6:47 pm

    I’m not a life coach, nor trying to be, but what you say is sooo true. Vague language is actually getting on my nerves; every time I read someone claiming that she will help you “get what you want and live your best life”. It makes my eyes roll because they don’t look like persons…
    Great post 🙂

  3. gehachete@hotmail.com

    March 6th, 2014 at 6:48 pm

    Sorry, Leslie, my reply was not for you, but for Laura. Oops!

  4. laura@yourcareerhomecoming.com

    March 6th, 2014 at 7:09 pm

    Glad to see you here, Fab!

  5. hpasquinzo@gmail.com

    March 6th, 2014 at 4:13 pm

    Laura, you put out some great stuff, girl! And I love Kate! 🙂

  6. laura@yourcareerhomecoming.com

    March 6th, 2014 at 4:29 pm

    Thanks, Hannah!

  7. Jacqatlanta@gmail.com

    March 6th, 2014 at 4:24 pm

    Thanks Laura. I always enjoy your articles. Another awesome one. Was wondering what the best medium for generating business when you first started your business? Thanks Laura

  8. laura@yourcareerhomecoming.com

    March 6th, 2014 at 4:28 pm

    Hi Jacqui,
    I had a website up right away and started blogging and being active on social media. I told everyone I knew what I was up to. It took a couple months to get my first client. One thing I wish I had done differently: I didn’t ask my early clients to help spread the word or for referrals.

    Hope this helps!

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  10. sewstitchmama@gmail.com

    August 14th, 2014 at 7:00 pm

    What do you think of specialized life-coaching? I feel passionate about coaching other mamas on how-to live a life of bliss & creativity AND be a loving, present mother. I suppose that’s mostly where my passions lie. I’m not sure if i’d do as well coaching a 30 year old single guy looking to build his online fly fishing business. Does that make sense? Is it better or worse to have a specific focus?

  11. laura@laurasimms.net

    August 14th, 2014 at 7:03 pm

    Better! One hundred thousand million-ty times better. Read this next: http://yourcareerhomecoming.com/a-three-step-formula-for-creating-solutions-that-sell/

  12. Tracylramsey@yahoo.com

    April 14th, 2015 at 2:35 pm

    I am so grateful I stumbled across this. I’m just finding out that I think coaching might be for me, but there is multiple areas I’m pulled toward. What type of training is out there that I can attend, get involved, and become more educated about coaching? Any advice would be incredible!

  13. Fiona

    September 17th, 2019 at 9:56 am

    Laura, I don’t think I could be a life coach but truly admire those who take up this profession (if I can call it that). I went to a life coaching course and thats when I found out it may not be for me. I suppose it was part of my own life coaching that I realised that.

  14. Doreen

    September 24th, 2019 at 3:39 pm

    Hi Laura – I like it. It’s more about “building a business” than “life coaching” as most businesses will have the same primary issue, that being cashflow/ sales.


  15. Stevey J Life Coach

    September 24th, 2019 at 3:53 pm

    Hi Laura – I like it, especially the parts about making sure you have money, soo important.


  16. Andrew Horn

    October 5th, 2019 at 12:34 pm

    I am very happy to see this post because it really a nice post. Thanks

  17. Anjana Shamballa

    October 25th, 2019 at 10:47 am

    Very nicely explained.

  18. Fatima

    October 25th, 2019 at 1:44 pm

    Hi. I’m Fatima
    I stumbled across your post. Very interesting. I feel like I want to be a life coach. Though I’m not 100 percent sure. Pls send me info on your course. I have an option available near to hime in centurion. I need to compare and see what the difference is . Thanks.
    Live Fatima.


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